Anyone remember this episode of Grey's?
Meredith: This could be a mistake. This. Us. You, you, you’re a really nice guy and well, you're, you don't want to get involved with me. If you knew me.
Finn: Scary.
Meredith: Finn.
Finn: And damaged. See, I told you.
Meredith: If you knew me. If you knew my family. If I told you the guys that I've slept with lately. The scary and damaged may actually be more than you can handle.
Story of my life. Eish.
Update to come later.
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
"Us" Part deux [J]
I just got "us"ed again by S.
And "we" ed
Twice in one night?! Well I suppose it was more than just twice, but two major moments. This next one came when we were talking about going to bed, and whether or not we wanted to sleep here at my place or at his place. We spent so much time trying to figure it out that we both just started falling asleep at our computers and decided to call it a separate night.
And I quote, via AIM convo of course
J: aww I was just gonna ask if you'd still be awake by the time I got there
S: my eyes are collapsing as im typeing
S: we have a long weekend ahead of us....
S: we'll figure something out
Sigh....
And "we" ed
Twice in one night?! Well I suppose it was more than just twice, but two major moments. This next one came when we were talking about going to bed, and whether or not we wanted to sleep here at my place or at his place. We spent so much time trying to figure it out that we both just started falling asleep at our computers and decided to call it a separate night.
And I quote, via AIM convo of course
J: aww I was just gonna ask if you'd still be awake by the time I got there
S: my eyes are collapsing as im typeing
S: we have a long weekend ahead of us....
S: we'll figure something out
Sigh....
"Us" [J]
I just got "us"ed by S
Ohh. Em. Gee.
I can't believe I just spelled out OMG like it's spelled, but man, this called for it.
Straight from our conversation via AIM, and I quote:
S: i couldnt imagine what she would say if she found out about us.....i think she would make things awkward
S: thats why i dont want her to know
S: i mean, we're cool the way it is....but if she knew it would change everything
S:....I think
Like I said
Oh.
My.
God.
Ohh. Em. Gee.
I can't believe I just spelled out OMG like it's spelled, but man, this called for it.
Straight from our conversation via AIM, and I quote:
S: i couldnt imagine what she would say if she found out about us.....i think she would make things awkward
S: thats why i dont want her to know
S: i mean, we're cool the way it is....but if she knew it would change everything
S:....I think
Like I said
Oh.
My.
God.
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
The Freaknasty [J]
So here's my follow up to C's post from last night.
iGuy was definitely over til about 2am, which I was kicking myself when my alarm went off at 8 this morning. I definitely hit that snooze for quite a while.
And we had, what will now be referred to as the "Freak Nasty Conversation"
Not to be confused with they "Kyle Conversation", which iGuy and I have also already had.
Which as a quick tangent, I wasn't sure how I felt about. In our conversation late one night about our ex's, iGuy was able to say that he was happy with all of his old relationships, no regrets, and had remained civil with all but one. And it made me wonder why I couldn't say the same thing? Why can't I look back on these past relationships and be like, you know, they weren't half bad. Is there something wrong with me in relationships? I was convinced that maybe I just hadn't found the right guy, but now I've got the nagging feeling that it might be me too. I just don't know how to be in a relationship is what it is. I don't know how to let somebody feel that way about me. Hmmm, just a little food for thoughts.
Last night we definitely talked about sex. And looots of it. I was curious to get his straight male opinion on the topic. And let me tell you what, it was quite eye opening. All in all a great conversation. I actually blushed.
I NEVER BLUSH.
And yes C, 90% of communication is body language, and you know you have to let me know when I'm doing what so I can stop! I think the body language last night went a little past, ahem, friendship.
And I can't help but wonder, if S wasn't around giving me mind blowing sex and such, would I be so resistant or hesitant about iGuy?
iGuy was definitely over til about 2am, which I was kicking myself when my alarm went off at 8 this morning. I definitely hit that snooze for quite a while.
And we had, what will now be referred to as the "Freak Nasty Conversation"
Not to be confused with they "Kyle Conversation", which iGuy and I have also already had.
Which as a quick tangent, I wasn't sure how I felt about. In our conversation late one night about our ex's, iGuy was able to say that he was happy with all of his old relationships, no regrets, and had remained civil with all but one. And it made me wonder why I couldn't say the same thing? Why can't I look back on these past relationships and be like, you know, they weren't half bad. Is there something wrong with me in relationships? I was convinced that maybe I just hadn't found the right guy, but now I've got the nagging feeling that it might be me too. I just don't know how to be in a relationship is what it is. I don't know how to let somebody feel that way about me. Hmmm, just a little food for thoughts.
Last night we definitely talked about sex. And looots of it. I was curious to get his straight male opinion on the topic. And let me tell you what, it was quite eye opening. All in all a great conversation. I actually blushed.
I NEVER BLUSH.
And yes C, 90% of communication is body language, and you know you have to let me know when I'm doing what so I can stop! I think the body language last night went a little past, ahem, friendship.
And I can't help but wonder, if S wasn't around giving me mind blowing sex and such, would I be so resistant or hesitant about iGuy?
another night with iGuy... [C]
so right now iGuy is over and hanging out with J in the living room. I have to be up early otherwise I'd still be out there.
oh J, you need to watch out! I feel as though that was infinitely more than the "Kyle Conversation"... and don't forget that 90% of all communication is non-verbal!
(the "Kyle Conversation" is a 3-hour conversation I had with a guy I was interested -past tense- in in which I heard about every girl he'd had sex with, and then some.)
oh J, you need to watch out! I feel as though that was infinitely more than the "Kyle Conversation"... and don't forget that 90% of all communication is non-verbal!
(the "Kyle Conversation" is a 3-hour conversation I had with a guy I was interested -past tense- in in which I heard about every girl he'd had sex with, and then some.)
Monday, May 19, 2008
The "Look" [J]
Ladies, tonight, I got the look.You know the look that you get when a guy who's interested in you see's you with a baby.
We (C and I) were out with our group that we sing with (which is where we met iGuy and Boom Boom), and the guy who does our vocal percussion came out with his wife and young baby to the bar.
Yes I realize that this sounds very Sweet Home Alabama...."Oh, you have a baby, in a bar!", and its so true.
And so I was holding the little one, (my guess is he's around 6 months or so), and he was in my lap, and I was sitting next to iGuy, and I look up, and iGuy is giving me THE LOOK. That I want to be with you and you're holding a baby and I'm starting to feel warm fuzzies and become all mushy inside.
Well, poop.
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Intro [J]
Ello all!
This is J....Yes the Vogue and Cosmo and patent leather pumps. Gotta love it.
So my roomie C and I decided this morning after a very interesting night last night, that we would start a joint blog to tell our many stories on the men in our lives. Because I don't know about you, but I couldn't make this mess up. So I figure I should share them with the blogging world.
As C said, we both have other blogs for the bitching and moaning of our everyday lives, this is strictly for the men. And yes, I was on a Man Fast. This shows you how well that works. When it rains, it pours.
I decided to fast after a bout with dysfunctional "relationships" and a handful of jerks to just focus on me and my life. Step in S, my main man. You'll probably be hearing many a story about our late night romps in bed, mmmm....Sex. Yes, you could say I'm the Samantha to our Sex and the City crew. S is the best friend of one of my best girlfriends, and she doesn't know about our little relationship we've got going on, which let me tell you, is quite difficult to keep on the low. But he is amazing, and I actually think I might have found something great in him. And he makes me happy. However the baggage and complications that come along with him, and with us being an "us" is obscene. He's totally worth it though.
Then enter Texter. The ex who slept with a cougar. Winner right there. He's now in my summer classes, doing his teaching pre-internship at my old high school, where my mother is his boss. Priceless. And next, there's Boom Boom, who likes to buy me wine and tequila and offer to fly me across the county for a dinner. And then there's one of Boom Boom's best friends iGuy (known as iPhone in C's post). Who was yes, her spooning buddy, who recently last night expressed his interest in me, by saying this and other things, I quote:
"You know, i <3 you as a friend but damn if you don't make yourself hard to resist."
Oh the insanity that is my life and the dysfunctional relationships in it.
This is J....Yes the Vogue and Cosmo and patent leather pumps. Gotta love it.
So my roomie C and I decided this morning after a very interesting night last night, that we would start a joint blog to tell our many stories on the men in our lives. Because I don't know about you, but I couldn't make this mess up. So I figure I should share them with the blogging world.
As C said, we both have other blogs for the bitching and moaning of our everyday lives, this is strictly for the men. And yes, I was on a Man Fast. This shows you how well that works. When it rains, it pours.
I decided to fast after a bout with dysfunctional "relationships" and a handful of jerks to just focus on me and my life. Step in S, my main man. You'll probably be hearing many a story about our late night romps in bed, mmmm....Sex. Yes, you could say I'm the Samantha to our Sex and the City crew. S is the best friend of one of my best girlfriends, and she doesn't know about our little relationship we've got going on, which let me tell you, is quite difficult to keep on the low. But he is amazing, and I actually think I might have found something great in him. And he makes me happy. However the baggage and complications that come along with him, and with us being an "us" is obscene. He's totally worth it though.
Then enter Texter. The ex who slept with a cougar. Winner right there. He's now in my summer classes, doing his teaching pre-internship at my old high school, where my mother is his boss. Priceless. And next, there's Boom Boom, who likes to buy me wine and tequila and offer to fly me across the county for a dinner. And then there's one of Boom Boom's best friends iGuy (known as iPhone in C's post). Who was yes, her spooning buddy, who recently last night expressed his interest in me, by saying this and other things, I quote:
"You know, i <3 you as a friend but damn if you don't make yourself hard to resist."
Oh the insanity that is my life and the dysfunctional relationships in it.
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